OMG I can't BELIEVE I missed this thread... it just popped up as suggested reading. Thank you guys SO MUCH. Please don't think I was being rude to ignore this - around that time I was traveling to visit my parents in the Netherlands and I had not visited the forum to see this thread. A very belated THANK YOU! I love you all
Speaking of celebrations, there is an important one coming up soon: our 10th forum anniversary... we must celebrate that one for sure
She was not quite what you would call refined. She was not quite what you would call unrefined. She was the kind of person that keeps a parrot.